The knee-shaking, sheet grabbing, kind of ecstasy — Every night I have a sort of bedtime routine. I take a hot shower to wash away the day, and then all clean, I climb into my bed with my phone in one hand and my vibrator in the other. I actually get excited about it each night, pulling my…

Some people are just born with talents. — Lately, I’ve had kissing on the brain. After having a few more make-out sessions with my new casual man, Mr. Midwest. He is like my own funny version of Mr. Big and my new favorite person to kiss. In fact, I like kissing him so much that all we’ve been…

and what you can do to change it. — I haven’t always been the most confident person. There have been times in my life when I felt as if I was in the middle of fighting a war with my body, instead of loving it. There were times when I wasn’t secure in my personality or who I wanted…

A guide for everyone that has ever thought about it. — Last year, Cara Delevingne graced the Met Gala’s red carpet with a stark white outfit that read “Peg the Patriarchy” in bold, blood-red letters. Besides leading me to have a very awkward conversation about what pegging was with my mother, it got me thinking about how many people I have…

to make your sex life even better. — There is nothing better as a woman than being with a partner who is a giving and experienced lover. Gone are the days of calling someone who is sexually experienced a slut or ho, now they are sought after partners. A partner who wants to please the woman they are…

I’m all about a dose of pain with my pleasure. — I have always wanted to be a normal girl. I wanted to have a boyfriend who loved me, a family, a house, and all the other things that come with the “American Dream.” Growing up as the outcast in a small rural town, I wanted nothing more than just to…

Or has society been wrong all along? — I remember the very first time I began to worry about the tightness of my vagina. I was dating this guy who was younger than me and was always seeking the approval of everyone around him. He liked to crack jokes at anyone’s expense, trying to be the funniest one…

Blow her mind with only your fingertips. — The idea of fingering always makes me think about high school. It was held in such high regard by myself and my girlfriends. It always seemed so progressive, even though it could happen with all your clothes on. The first time I got fingered, I was a freshman in high…

Everything you need to know about sex and love with herpes. — When I was younger, I tended to be a bit of a serial monogamous. I wasn’t sleeping with more than one person, and didn’t really even have sex outside of relationships. After a gut wrenching breakup, I was tentatively dipping my toe back in the dating pool when I met…