Here’s what happened

It’s not a secret that I love anal sex. There are often times when I find myself asking for anal over regular intercourse. I’m one of those unicorn girls who gets off from anal sex. …


even though she won’t tell you.

Each day when I wake up, I go through a routine. As spontaneous as my sex life is, my day-to-day life is actually quite monotonous. I get up early, when it’s still dark, and make coffee. Then I sit on my porch and read through my email. …


What MM is and why you should doing it.

The first time I heard about mutual masturbation, I was listening to a podcast called Guys We Fucked. Hosted by comedians Corinne Fisher and Krystyna Hutchinson, the Guys We F’d podcast was paving the way to changing how female sexuality was portrayed in the media. …


to make your sex life even better.

There is nothing better as a woman than being with a partner who is a giving and experienced lover. Gone are the days of calling someone who is sexually experienced a slut or ho, now they are sought after partners. …


that you really NEED to know.

I’m on a mission to start having the best sex of my life. Now that I’m in my thirties I want to leave the mediocre Sex-escapades in the past with twenties, where they belong. Sex is no longer this thing I do for anyone else but myself. …


Stigmas, taboos, and shame.

The first time I tried anal sex, I hated it. Not only was it painful and done without much lube, but the way my boyfriend at the time treated the whole situation made it so much worse. …


Dryness isn’t always a sign that something is wrong, but it is something you need to talk about.

Recently, my friend with benefits came over. We hadn’t seen each other lately because, in all honesty, I was mad at him. Turns out, he was also mad at me. This is not surprising. While I do think of myself as a good time, I am not the easiest person…


A guide for everyone that has ever thought about it.

A couple of days ago, Cara Delevingne graced the Met Gala’s red carpet with a stark white outfit that read “Peg the Patriarchy” in bold, blood-red letters. …


Does it even matter anymore?

The last time someone asked me about my body count, we had only been dating a few weeks. We were in bed together, cuddling after sex, when he asked me out of the blue. …


Blow her mind with only your fingertips.

The idea of fingering always makes me think about high school. It was held in such high regard by myself and my girlfriends. It always seemed so progressive, even though it could happen with all your clothes on. The first time I got fingered, I was a freshman in high…

Ariana

I write about sex, love, relationships, and other things I don’t understand.

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